What to wear to a funeral
For a funeral, men should wear a dark suit in black, charcoal or navy, a white or pale shirt, a dark plain tie and polished black shoes. If you don’t own a dark suit, a dark blazer with dark trousers is fine.
The outfit
Dark suit, white shirt, dark tie
- JacketBlack, charcoal or navy suit jacket
- TrousersMatching suit trousers
- ShirtWhite or pale blue dress shirt
- NeckwearPlain black or dark silk tie
- ShoesPolished black leather oxfords or derbies
- ExtrasDark socks, a simple watch, and a dark overcoat in cold weather
Tips
- Keep everything quiet: dark colors, and no loud patterns, logos or bright accessories.
- If you don’t own a suit, a dark blazer, dark trousers, a white shirt and a dark tie are perfectly respectful.
- Wear a tie unless you know the family prefers a relaxed service; it’s the safer choice.
- Families sometimes ask for something different, like a favorite color. If they do, follow their wishes.
Common questions
Do I have to wear black to a funeral?
No. Charcoal and navy are just as respectful. Avoid bright colors unless the family asks for them.
Can I wear a suit without a tie to a funeral?
Increasingly, yes, at less traditional services. A tie is still the safer choice when you’re unsure.
What should I wear to a funeral if I don’t own a suit?
A dark blazer or sweater with dark trousers, a collared shirt and dark shoes. Clean and pressed matters more than a full suit.