What to wear to an engagement party
For an engagement party, men should usually wear smart casual to semi-formal: a sport coat or suit with an open collar, dress trousers or chinos, and leather shoes. If the invite names a dress code, follow it.
The outfit
Example photo: Moisés Sánchez / PexelsLight grey suit, no tie
- JacketLight grey suit
- TrousersMatching grey trousers
- ShirtLight blue dress shirt
- NeckwearOptional: navy silk tie
- ShoesBrown leather derbies or loafers
- ExtrasBlack or brown belt
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Tips
- Engagement parties are usually a notch less formal than the wedding will be. A suit without a tie, or a sport coat with chinos, covers most of them.
- The venue sets the level: a restaurant or hotel bar suggests a jacket; a backyard party suggests chinos and a collared shirt.
- Bring a little personality, like a patterned shirt, a textured jacket or a pocket square. It’s a celebration.
- For an evening party at a nice venue, go darker and wear the jacket.
If the invite names a dress code
Cocktail attire
Cocktail attire for men means a tailored suit in navy, charcoal or grey, a dress shirt, a tie and leather dress shoes. It sits between business casual and black tie: dressier than the office, but no tuxedo.
Semi-formal
Semi-formal for men means a suit, or a sport coat with dress trousers, plus a collared dress shirt and leather shoes. The tie is optional, and a tuxedo is too much.
Dressy casual
Dressy casual for men means a collared shirt with dress trousers or chinos, usually a sport coat or blazer, and leather shoes. A tie is optional, and jeans are usually too casual.
Smart casual
Smart casual for men means a jacket without a tie: a blazer or sport coat, a collared shirt or fine knit, chinos or wool trousers, and leather shoes or clean minimal sneakers.
Common questions
Do I need a suit for an engagement party?
Not usually. A sport coat with trousers or chinos is right for most; wear a suit if the invite says cocktail.
Can I wear jeans to an engagement party?
Dark, clean jeans with a blazer can work at a casual party. If you’re unsure, wear chinos.
What color should I wear to an engagement party?
Anything but head-to-toe white. Navy, grey, olive and tan are easy choices.
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